Frequently asked questions

 

Can you really become addicted to computer games?

Yes, computer game overuse has all the conventional signs of an addiction.

 

Should I turn off the computer, lock away the modem and prevent the gamer from playing?

This may be a conceivable procedure for young children obsessed with playing, but with adolescents and young adults this course of action may lead to further conflicts and an increased use of computer games. Try to discuss a way to balance the use of computer games with other things in life.

 

When should I seek help?

If you are a gamer: When the negative effects are becoming predominant and you are having difficulties controlling the use of computer games.

If you are a parent: When the negative effects are becoming predominant and your child is having difficulties controlling the use of computer games. Trust your instinct. You are the foremost expert on your child.

 

Are some computer games more likely to cause an addiction?

Yes, an intriguing and time-consuming game like World of Warcraft is more likely to cause an addiction. But in the end it is a matter of taste and preference. Some gamers become addicted to simple, straightforward games.

 

Should I give my child a computer?

The computer is often used for doing homework, communicating and obtaining information. It is a usable tool. If you as a parent monitor and limit the activities, having a computer is not a problem.

 

Does it matter where I place the computer?

Yes! A computer in one of the common rooms, such as the living room or workroom, is easier to monitor than a computer in the kids’ room.

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Is it wise to let my child play as a reward for carrying out school or household duties?

Well, as a parent you need to decide whether or not you wish to encourage the use of computer games. There is a certain risk that being allowed to play becomes the only incentive to keep up whith the duties, which in turn may serve to strengthen the addiction.

On the other hand, there are families with younger children where this works.

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As a parent, should I start using computer games?

Most kids appreciate if parents show an interest in or even share their affection for gaming, so it might be a good idea to play together with them. that way, setting limits will be easier. If you do not wish to play, why not just join and watch? This will give you an idea of what kind of game they are playing and if the game is suitable for their age.

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Why should I turn to you for help?

We only work with this type of addiction and have become something of experts in this field.

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You offer online services. Does that really work?

Yes. in many cases it is even more succesful than traditional therapy where therapist and client meet IRL.

Since gamers spend most of their time in front of the computer it is easier to reach them that way.

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